#17 DAYS TO THE NEW YEAR # 17 DAYS TO A HEALTHY YOU. #TIP 39
#TIP 39
Today’s tip is related to parenting. Whatever the age of our child/children, we have faced/are facing some issues with them all the time/sometime. For that, I would like to suggest that we are inadvertently making some parenting mistakes.
I am discussing one such mistake today and also the solution.
CHILDREN DO NOT PAY ATTENTION TO WHAT THEIR PARENTS SAY——
THIS IS WHY——-
Very often parents are heard complaining that their children do not listen to them.
It is mostly because children "LISTEN" to what you do rather than what you say.
Take for instance your case, and see that you, too, behave like your parents, even if you did not/do not admire them.
Very often you must have heard your relatives telling you—’Oh you speak exactly as your father used to.’
OR ‘How closely you resemble your mom.’
Children copy their parents
Do you know who the three most important people in a child's life are?
The mother comes first
The father comes next
God comes third.
Children learn by observing everything around them, but they pay unusual attention to their mothers and fathers. Being their best role model is a huge responsibility, if not the most important.
They get into our shoes (literally sometimes).
According to social learning theories, people will mimic what others do and observe. When the spectator is untutored, such as a little toddler, this copying and modelling are most common.
In early life, modelling and imitating any type of deportment is appealing.
When a youngster sees his parents' activities and interactions, he will frequently replicate their actions and behaviours.
SO THE NEXT TIME YOU WANT YOUR CHILDREN TO DO WHAT YOU WANT THEM TO DO, DON’T TELL THEM WHAT TO DO, INSTEAD DO AS YOU WANT THEM TO DO.
THE NEXT TIME YOU RAISE YOUR VOICE,BEWARE YOUR CHILD IS WATCHING AND THEN WHEN HE/SHE IS RUDE, YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND WHY ----